
You May Be Feeling
Calling out the little pinch points in contemporary life and exploring their emotional costs
You May Be Feeling
Ep. 4: Your Presence Tastes Like Absence, Part 2
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Caitlin Murphy
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Season 1
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Episode 4
Last episode, I focused on online dating to consider how we’re becoming increasingly accustomed to a version of presence that is so half-assed it might as well be absence. I’m enjoying being off the apps, by the way.
A feature of the internet we’ve long metabolized is how it facilitates identity doubling. The fact that we have online versions of ourselves is a splintering that’s easy to forget. We are at ease expressing ourselves, to ourselves and to others, in the forms and flavours of someone else’s design; and we have become immersed so deeply in a system and its symbols, we’ve internalized its language as our own.